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"Are you comfortable in silence?"
Before taking our relationship to the next level, one question I asked my then girlfriend (now wife) was, "Would we be comfortable in...


"Expose yourself!"
Over the past few weeks we have been talking a lot about boundaries within a marriage and the benefits of putting them in place. The...


"Envy..."
It's important to have boundaries in a marriage as they demarcate a safe space for you and the Mrs to operate in freely without rocking...


"Are you an enabler?"
Deep question right? I feel that part of you knows the answer already. What do you reckon? I know I can be. It's not on purpose...


"What are your motives?"
What are the motives behind what you do in your marriage? Are you trying to honour God by upholding the vows you said on your wedding day...


"No thank you."
Ouch! I know you've felt the pinch whenever she has given you the "No, I don't feel like doing that/watching that/eating that/having...


The Power of Influence
Following on from our last post about responsibility is a post about power and I'm not talking about He-Man here. I’m talking about the...


Take responsibility for YOUR actions!
Although this may be somewhat obvious to some, once you get married, you are required to bear each other's burdens. This is correct. What...


"Every action has a reaction"
This note isn't just for the married folk. This is applicable to relationships across the board. It boils down to this: you reap what yo


Boundaries in Marriage
Hopefully this won't come as a surprise to you…especially if your trying to block my entry into la la land. The Bible cites in Ephesians...
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