"What are your motives?"What are the motives behind what you do in your marriage? Are you trying to honour God by upholding the vows you said on your wedding day...
"No thank you."Ouch! I know you've felt the pinch whenever she has given you the "No, I don't feel like doing that/watching that/eating that/having...
The Power of InfluenceFollowing on from our last post about responsibility is a post about power and I'm not talking about He-Man here. I’m talking about the...
Take responsibility for YOUR actions!Although this may be somewhat obvious to some, once you get married, you are required to bear each other's burdens. This is correct. What...
"Every action has a reaction"This note isn't just for the married folk. This is applicable to relationships across the board. It boils down to this: you reap what yo
Boundaries in MarriageHopefully this won't come as a surprise to you…especially if your trying to block my entry into la la land. The Bible cites in Ephesians...
"Protect your Marriage"The covenant of marriage is a sacred one and should be treated as such. It's not every Tom, Dick and Harry that needs to know about the...
"Say something nice to her"Up until this point you will have noted the merits of action over lip service. I still stand by that however, there is something...
"Time to do those dishes!"This is actually one of my favourites things to do! Probably because this is my primary love language - Acts of Service. I know you've...
"Spend a little Quality Time"For the next few weeks we'll touch on the five love languages highlighted in Dr Chapman's book. I've found that quality time takes on...